Assalammualaikum & Hello to all.
My husband and I decided to create a blog to document our TTC journey. We will blog in Malay & English language. So this is our first post..
2 bulan lagi genaplah 2 tahun usia perkahwinan kami. I know, ada yang cakap
"Ala.. baru 1 tahun lebih, relax-relax dulu."
"Honeymoon dulu."
But we both have our own reasons why we took on this emotional rollercoaster ride. I'm sure everyone who is trying to conceive has their own personal reasons.
Why and when did we know that we wanted to have a baby?
We got married in October 2018. Lepas kahwin tu memang kitorang fikir, klu ada rezeki, ada la. Nothing to rush, sebab baru lagi. But then after November 2018, I didn't get my period sampai lah pertengahan bulan Januari. That raised a cause for concern lah kan, I took urine pregnancy test (UPT) tapi negatif. So, I went to see a doctor where she did an ultrasound scan for me. Masa doktor letak probe tu atas perut memang berharap dekat scan tu tunjuk ada isi.. tapi kosong je. Saya sendiri rasa tak sangka saya akan rasa kecewa bila doktor cakap takde. Yelah masa tu belum TTC betul-betul. Rasa sedih bila keluar klinik, masa tu kami masih duduk berasingan lagi.
So dari situ la perasaan nakkan anak tu timbul dlm hati kami. Maka bermula lah episod TTC! We did not want to wait any longer. Bila ada yang suruh relax2 dulu, honeymoon dulu, memang rasa nak marah.. hahaha. Because we are not getting younger day by day. My husband already turned 30.
I wish someone told me or warned me how difficult TTC is. I thought TTC ni adalah benda yang mudah. Sebab tengok kawan-kawan lain senang je pregnant. Kawin sebulan terus ada good news. So memang itulah sangkaan sy terhadap perkara ni. Get married, get babies. I was so naive. We started TTC with the aid of Glow app, and ovulation prediction kit (OPK). We did this for a year.... and still no good news. Semua benda yang orang suruh makan, kami makan. Pergi berurut dan sebagainya. Jadi selepas setahun kegagalan, kami pun decide untuk medical intervention pada tahun ini (2019).
I will continue about our TTC journey with medical intervention in my next post. Thanks for reading. <3
We got married in October 2018. Lepas kahwin tu memang kitorang fikir, klu ada rezeki, ada la. Nothing to rush, sebab baru lagi. But then after November 2018, I didn't get my period sampai lah pertengahan bulan Januari. That raised a cause for concern lah kan, I took urine pregnancy test (UPT) tapi negatif. So, I went to see a doctor where she did an ultrasound scan for me. Masa doktor letak probe tu atas perut memang berharap dekat scan tu tunjuk ada isi.. tapi kosong je. Saya sendiri rasa tak sangka saya akan rasa kecewa bila doktor cakap takde. Yelah masa tu belum TTC betul-betul. Rasa sedih bila keluar klinik, masa tu kami masih duduk berasingan lagi.
So dari situ la perasaan nakkan anak tu timbul dlm hati kami. Maka bermula lah episod TTC! We did not want to wait any longer. Bila ada yang suruh relax2 dulu, honeymoon dulu, memang rasa nak marah.. hahaha. Because we are not getting younger day by day. My husband already turned 30.
I wish someone told me or warned me how difficult TTC is. I thought TTC ni adalah benda yang mudah. Sebab tengok kawan-kawan lain senang je pregnant. Kawin sebulan terus ada good news. So memang itulah sangkaan sy terhadap perkara ni. Get married, get babies. I was so naive. We started TTC with the aid of Glow app, and ovulation prediction kit (OPK). We did this for a year.... and still no good news. Semua benda yang orang suruh makan, kami makan. Pergi berurut dan sebagainya. Jadi selepas setahun kegagalan, kami pun decide untuk medical intervention pada tahun ini (2019).
I will continue about our TTC journey with medical intervention in my next post. Thanks for reading. <3
